Sister Sites
Grief
Nation
by Terry Pratchett
(Doubleday)
Mau is on the edge of adulthood so he's sent alone to the Boys' Island to prove that he is a man. But as he sails back to his home island, a huge wave rushes across the ocean and destroys the entire population. Mau is the only member of his Nation left alive and he is totally alone except for Daphne, an English girl who is the only survivor (except for the parrot) of a shipwrecked schooner . As they struggle to communicate and overcome their huge cultural differences, the arrival of traumatised refugees from other islands makes them find their own inner strengths and discover that they need to look into the past before they can face the future. Told with Terry Pratchett's usual light touch and sense of humour, this story takes a thought-provoking look at the effects of grief and loss and the strength of the human spirit.
(Unlike most of Terry Pratchett's other books, this book is not set on the Discworld. Instead, it takes place in an alternative reality to our own, sometime after the Napoleonic Wars).
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Home Now
by Lesley Beake, illustrated by Karin Littlewood
(Frances Lincoln)
Set in a glowing Southern African landscape, this is an intensely moving book where the author leaves gaps for the reader to fill. Sieta lives with her Aunty in a place she calls ‘Home Now’, but, despite the friendliness of its people, she does not truly feel it is home, for she remembers another place back over the mountains where she once lived. That was before her head became filled with pictures – pictures of happy times before her parents got sick and died.
Then, one day, Sieta and her schoolmates are taken to visit an elephant park and there too the inhabitants have lost their families. Sieta meets Satara, the smallest elephant, recognising in him that sadness of loss. That recognition helps Sieta to start to move on, to begin to come to terms with the changes she has faced and to accept Aunty’s love and her new life.
The vibrant watercolour shades of yellow, red, purple, green and orange in the scenes of township life contrast with the almost overwhelming expressions of sadness and loss in the faces of Sieta and Satara so movingly painted by Karin Littlewood.
A postscript from the author explains that there are millions of orphans like Sieta who have lost their parents to AIDS.
(reviewed by Jill Bennett)
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Wipe
Out
by Mimi Thebo
(Collins)
How do you talk about your grief? How do you live when someone you loved
is dead? How do you cope when you are an eleven year old boy?
For one week we travel with Billy who has lost
his mother, Kitten Brown. Kitten was a tiger surfer winning Hawaii Tropic
Open trophy. She’s larger than life and twice as vibrant. For Billy,
she’s gone except when he dreams - large dreams, full of colour
and surfing. And slowly his dreams and his life swap over. His life is
made harder by his mother’s last wish to have him stay with Aunty
Mary before her funeral.
With mum’s death come questions. Will he
and his father learn how to live without mum? Will they learn to talk
to each other? And how can he leave Aunty Mary in her grey house with
her budget life?
By the end of the book, everything has changed.
We are travel a lifetime with Billy’s family and friends and you
can't help liking him. Mimi Thebo writes powerfully and simply to produce
an honest book that captures the first painful days of a loved ones death.
It's a boy’s book, although surfer girls will relate to it, and
it's a fantastic book for reluctant boy readers.
Ages 10+
(reviewed by Catherine Randle)
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Michael
Rosen’s Sad Book
words by Michael Rosen, pictures by Quentin Blake
(Walker Books) 0 7445 9898 2
Most writers of books about death for children use fiction as their vehicle,
thus providing a secure ‘space’ apart, wherein young readers
can explore so disturbing and difficult an experience. But, as we know
story grows out of life, indeed all life is story, and what Michael Rosen
shares with us is part of his story. Writing straight from the heart as
a bereaved parent (his son Eddie died of meningitis aged eighteen) he
tells it like it is for him; how his sadness and grief affect him in different
ways at different times, and how he attempts to cope with these feelings
- feelings that range through overwhelming, all engulfing sadness, despair,
powerful anger, emptiness and haunting memories. Quentin Blake’s
illustrations are perfectly attuned with Rosen’s feelings and emotions.
In just eight frames over a double spread he chronicles Eddie’s
life from baby to teenager, with the final frame, unbearably blank. Shades
of black and grey reflect the author’s darkness and despair as it
descends upon him until it blots out all colour. Colour only returns with
the memories and candles; candles burning bright to keep the darkness
at bay.
The synergy of Rosen’s words and Blake’s illustrations create
what is a deeply affecting, profoundly moving book and one that resonates
long after it has been put down.
(reviewed by Jill Bennett)
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Always
and Forever
by Alan Durant, illustrated by Debi Gliori
(Doubleday)
Hare, Otter, Mole and Fox share a woodland home, loving and caring for
each other as a family. Then, one autumn day Fox dies. All through the
long winter the three friends grieve for their beloved Fox remembering
all he did for them. A great sadness still pervades their home as winter
turns to spring but a timely visit from Squirrel leads the three to a
realisation that even though they can no longer see him, Fox is still
very much there in their memories and in their hearts, even in their laughter,
‘father of the house … always and forever.’ Thus, ultimately
the trio come to an understanding of the true and enduring meaning of
friendship.
A poignant story that exudes warmth and tenderness through both words
and pictures.
(Reviewed by Jill Bennett)
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Red
Sky in the Morning
by Elizabeth Laird
(Macmillan Children's Books)
Everything changes when Anna's new baby brother, Ben, arrives. She adores
him but he is profoundly disabled because of hydrocephalus. The book intermingles
the ups and downs of adolescence with the story of her relationship with
Ben and her reaction to his death at the age of 2. Told in the first person,
it's a well written, strongly emotional but unsentimental book which gives
a clear account of grief and the impact of a sick child on a family. Have
the tissues handy.
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When Uncle
Bob Died
by Althea
(Happy Cat)
This book is wider ranging than the title suggests. The boy who is the
central character not only talks about how he felt when Uncle Bob died,
he also mentions his cousins' reactions and, through a sensitive discussion
of death at school, introduces other children's reactions to the death
of a grandparent, a cousin and a baby brother. The straight forward explanations
he receives from his mum and his teacher provide a useful model for others
in a similar situation and his fear that his own father will die highlights
a common reaction in children (and adults for that matter). The book is
purely factual with no attempt to describe the funeral or to to explain
what might happen after death. This absence of religous content combines
with the multi-cultural pictures to make it useful for triggering discussion
with a wide-range of children.
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Starseeker
by Tim Bowler
(Oxford University Press)
Luke's life is shattered when his father dies and, despite being a talented
pianist, his grief makes him lose interest in music and join up with a
gang of young louts. When they encourage him to break into a house, he
discovers a secret that leads him into deeper trouble but also helps him
rediscover his joy in music. The situation is complicated by his mum's
plans to remarry. Luke can't bear the thought of anyone taking his father's
place but, when he meets an old woman who has never got over her own grief,
he realises his mum needs to move on. This sensitive novel has a mystic
quality interwoven with the action and the combined effect keeps you turning
the pages.
Ages 9+
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